1.24.2012

The One with the Marathon

I ran a marathon.

I just had to "say" that out loud because I still can't believe it.

I've always wanted to run a marathon but never thought it would be possible with my IT band injuries. 

I've been running my whole life.  When I was younger I did the little kid's track meets and would run with my dad.  In jr. high and high school I ran track.  At ASU I wore workout clothes to class every day and ran on the running trail on campus or around Tempe.  When Steve and I got married I went for runs after work and on Saturday mornings.  Basically there has never been a time in my life when I wasn't running.   Until I injured my IT band in a half marathon.  I was forced to take a year off from running and endured countless hours of physical therapy measures.  Who can forget this post?

When Larissa moved back she told me we were going to run a marathon together. I told her I couldn't with my injury, but she wouldn't take no for an answer. She carefully selected the perfect race for us and emailed me the training plan. It wasn't hard to start because we had already been running together.  We never skipped a workout, even when it was in the 20's and pitch black at 5 in the morning.  There were a few long runs where I had to stop and walk home several miles because of an IT band flare up, but I never gave up.

My biggest fear was that I was going to drive to Phoenix, fly to California, rent a car, stay in a hotel, start the race, and then have to drop out because of my injury. 

Race morning I was really excited,


and really scared.

Larissa took off from the start without me because she usually runs faster than me and she was going for a goal time a lot faster than mine.  She told me good luck and she would see me at the finish line.  I felt kind of sad to be alone for so long but had a great playlist and beautiful ocean views to keep me entertained. 

At mile 9 that all too familiar aching started in my left knee and the feelings of dread, humiliation, frustration, and despair started creeping in.  Then out of nowhere I noticed a girl running next to me and started talking to her.  Before I knew it, we were at mile 14 still talking away and I realized the pain had disappeared somewhere along the way.  I have never felt so much relief.  I truly believe she was my guardian angel and I would have dropped out if I hadn't been distracted by her. 

From here until the end it was smooth sailing.  I never hit The Wall, and even started to think I could get a sub 4-hour time.  I picked up my pace and slapped the mile signs as I ran by.  The only problem was that the course merged with the half-marathoners at this point and so I was stuck behind tons of people "running" at a 12 minute mile pace.  I had to weave in and out of crowds for the last 2 miles, but I knew I was getting close to the 4 hour mark so I started sprinting. 

I crossed the finish line at 4:00:24!  I didn't know whether to laugh or cry, so I did both.  So happy to finish, yet so close to a sub 4-hour time.  Larissa was waiting for me right at the finish line but she wasn't looking so good.  I was shocked to find out she had finished only minutes before me.  She hit The Wall pretty hard and missed her goal time.  She still beat me, and her best marathon time is way better than mine will ever be at 3:44.  Read her story, you will not be disappointed. 


It felt good to walk around afterwards but I noticed my toenails felt a little tingly.  I took my shoes off and was carrying them around, but one slipped out of my hands and landed right on my big toenail. I screamed from the worst pain I've ever felt and Larissa and I watched in horror as it instantly turned black.  I'm pretty sure it's a goner.

We had a great relaxing day after that.  Read books in bed, got our free burritos from Chipotle, watched the sunset on the beach, and went to bed at 7:30. 


I have a couple of HUGE thank-yous. 

First, thanks to Steve for putting up with me for the past 4 months and picking up the slack with the kiddos.  Training for a marathon is a huge time commitment.  He always gave me a hard time, saying things like, "you're going to pay money and drive and fly hundreds of miles to go run 26 miles??"  But the night before the race he told me he wanted me to do good.  The marathon website had an online tracker so Steve and the kids watched our progress online.  Every time I crossed one of those check-points I could picture them all cheering for me and it totally kept me going.

Second, thanks to Rissa for believing in me and taking me under her wing.  She molded me and made me into a better runner.  I had a blast on our mini-vacation, even if she did drive on the wrong side of the road at one point (dang foreigner).  We also could not quit laughing about the lady I saw during the race who had pooped her pants.  She was wearing black so I don't think she realized
everyone could see it.  Now, if she was like Kara Goucher or someone and running a 2:40 marathon, I might understand the need to poop your pants.  But to be running/walking a half marathon at a 13 minute pace, there is no excuse. Come on people!

Third, thanks to my family for babysitting.  My parents, Jason, and Steve's parents were always willing to babysit when Steve was busy and Larissa and I needed to go for a run.  I seriously could not have done it without their help and support.  At one point Jason even offered to trade me legs so that I could do this injury free. 

I couldn't even bring myself to tell anyone that we were training for this race because I was so sure my IT band was going to fail miserably and I wouldn't be able to finish.  There was even a point a few years ago when I wasn't sure if I would ever run again, let alone run for 26.2 miles.  I feel truly blessed to have come this far.  This was a life-changing experience and something to cross off my bucket list!



Marathon
Runner DetailsRace Results
Bib:703
Name:Kimberlee Henling
Gender:F
Age:31
Hometown:Winslow, AZ
Overall:421 out of 1198
Women: 122 out of 492
F 30-34: 24 out of 72
Age/Grade: 56.43% Place: 436
Finish: 4:00:24 Pace: 9:11
Tag Time:4:00:24
Gun Time:4:00:37
Split Times
9.4 Mi:1:27:27 Pace: 9:19
13.8 Mi:2:06:52 Pace: 9:12
18.0 Mi:2:45:50 Pace: 9:13
19.8 Mile:3:04:58 Pace: 9:21


1.01.2012

The One with the Busiest December Ever

What idiots would decide to completely remodel a large home, move from their house built ten years ago, train for a marathon, and attend all of the usual holiday parties, programs, and activities during the bitter cold month of December?

That would be us. 

We bought the house in September and had a goal to be in by Christmas.  Let's just say it snuck up on us real fast. 

Steve did a lot of the renovating himself and spent many nights until 3 in the morning working.  Luckily we had lots of nice friends and family to help with the work (tiling, painting, trimming, etc) and the babysitting.  We made about 88 trips to Home Depot, 10 trailer loads to the transfer station, and numerous caravans moving from the old house to the "new" house. 

But, we made it!  We moved in exactly one week before Christmas.  It's been hard living in a construction zone, because lots of work still isn't done.  We still have to finish installing some base, closet doors, and outlets, with lots of cleaning and organizing to do.   And we might be doing painting touch-ups until the day we die.  We won't have our countertops or cooktop installed until Jan 5, our sliding doors and windows until Jan 9, and the blinds in those sliding doors until Feb 27.  We barely got satellite TV installed yesterday.  And believe me, it was really difficult living without TV during this time of year with lots of good college football and basketball games on.

Amid all the chaos, our kids had lots of things going on. 

Talan had his kindergarten Christmas program.  Can I just say how proud I am of him for actually singing?!  Usually during a music program he puts his head straight down and just stands there.  Not this time!
Tatum had a Christmas program for her Busy Bees preschool and a Zumba recital.  She definitely doesn't have stage fright and did so great!

Tobin is now sleeping in a big bed.  We decided that when we moved we didn't want to put the crib back together so we were just going to put him in a twin bed and see how he did.  He sleeps so well in it, naps and all!


Whew!  I'm ready for everything to slow down and enjoy life...

12.31.2011

The One with Christmas 2011

Friday, December 23:  First and only time Christmas shopping

Saturday, December 24:  Henling Family Christmas Eve tradition of eating at El Rancho and opening presents.


Then, Bratt Family Christmas Eve tradition of the Talent Show (Tobin danced, Tatum did Zumba, Talan played football, I did a Yoga pose, and Steve remodeled a house).  After doing a talent the kids always get new pj's to sleep in for Christmas Eve.
 

Sunday, December 25:  Kids woke up and checked out what Santa brought.  We only got a few pics because we were busy recording the action. 

Tobin got a Cozy Coupe with trailer. 
Please disregard the snot rocket.  It's one of the only pictures from that morning.
Talan and Tatum each got a DSiXL and a pillow pet.

We actually made it to church on time, even a little early.  I loved having Christmas on a Sunday.  It was a great meeting that helped us remember what Christmas is really about.  After church we went to Amma and Bappy's house to open more presents and have the traditional spaghetti dinner.  Finally, we played the new hilarious game that Jason got. 

Monday, December 26:  Tree down, presents put away, and back to reality of working on the never-ending house projects.


We were truly blessed to spend time with those that matter most, even though it was a whirlwind holiday.  Hopefully next year won't be so stressful!

11.30.2011

The One with the Easy Street

We're not going to be on Easy Street for much longer.
 

We had the opportunity to move to a bigger, older house, or stay in our newer, modern house.  After much debate, we decided to try something new and move.  It will be sad to leave this house that we built ourselves and this neighborhood where our kids can just walk down the street to hang out at Amma and Bappy's (Grandma and Grandpa's) house.  In the end, there were too many things on our list of do-overs for our "dream house" that this house had so we couldn't pass it up.

1.  Bedrooms away from living areas.  Right now our master bedroom is right by the kitchen, and the kid's bedrooms are right by the living room.  It's hard to sleep in or go to bed at night with all the noise. 
 
2.  Kid's bedrooms close to master bedroom.  We thought it would be great to be away from the kids, until someone tried to break into our house.  Now I want to be close to my kids in case of an emergency.

3.  An actual entry way.  When people come to our door, they can see right into the chaos.  There is no hiding it! 

4.  Storage.  We don't even have a coat closet now, let alone a place for food storage.

5.  Bigger garage.  We like to park both cars in the garage, plus bikes, strollers, wagons, scooters, etc...Due to the cramped space in our current garage, I've run over bikes 4 different times.

Add remodeling and moving to the normal, busy December things going on and our lives are spinning out of control! There is lots of work to be done on a house that is 40+ years old, but we're hoping to be in by Christmas.   

11.26.2011

The One with the Turkey Bowl

Thanksgiving wouldn't be complete without football.  We had a good, sweaty, fun 6-on-6 game before we feasted.


Dad, Mom, Christie, Me and Tatum, Kalli, Moni, Gary, Tobin, Talan, Noah, Collin, Steve Rissa, Jason, Ezra

We have so much to be thankful for, especially a wonderful family.  Although it wasn't quite complete without Richie, Nancy, Ryan, Courtney, and Kyle.

11.05.2011

The One with the Blue Soccer Kickers

Steve was lucky enough to coach Talan's soccer team again this year.  He had a great group of kids on the team, including a cute girl who had a major crush on Talan.  They were deciding on a team name and she suggested they name it "Talan".  Talan suggested the "Blue Soccer Kickers" instead and she quickly agreed, "Yeah, what Talan said."  So the Blue Soccer Kickers it was.

Talan improved a lot from last year.  He scored at least one goal in each game, sometimes even more than one, and really enjoyed playing.  It's good to see your kids succeeding and having fun.


I made rice krispie treat soccer balls for the last game of the season, but the games got cancelled because of the bad weather so none of the kids got to eat them.  Oh well, more for us! 



Tatum was such a good cheerleader for Talan's soccer games.  She would yell at every game, "Go T-dog!"  She is turning into a little girly-girl.  She loves her baby doll, Yo-Yo, and takes such good care of her.  She also loves to play dress up and watch Dora. 



Tobin was kind of naughty at the soccer games.  He just wanted to get down and walk around.  He would wander around in a big dirt field all by himself without a care in the world.  He is also turning into quite the little scavenger.  He is constantly finding and carrying food around the house.  Steve thinks that if we turned him loose in the wilderness he could easily survive on his own. 

11.01.2011

The One with the Costumes and Pumpkins

Halloween.  What's not to like?  You get to dress up in a costume, carve a pumpkin, and people give you candy. 

We even got in on the action this year and went to an adult costume party...as a cheerleader and football player.


The kids recycled their costumes from last year and went as the crew from Snow White, complete with a prince and Grumpy Dwarf.


Tatum wanted a happy jack-o-lantern, and Talan wanted a scary one.